Dheere bolo, kum bolo, meetha bolo

Much is written and said about how to communicate. In fact, communication is a subject by itself. But I am going to confine only to how to speak with courtesy, so  that the listener is not hurt in any way and as a result feels a sense of quiet and peace.Since we are on spiritual path, we have to be careful to speak softly, briefly and sweetly. A true Gyani is naturally sweet in his choice of words and can make a visible difference in the way the listener will respond. More a person speaks softly and with respect, more he is able to spread peace and goodwill. Added to this, if the person is full of love and compassion for others, he has the inherent power to convert a hell-like place into a heaven. You might have noticed how even people who are in the habit of shouting at others and even abusive, suddenly calming down in the presence of a Gyani.